I haven’t worked out for 3 weeks on a bulk. Now what?
- Dr. Kuhnow
- Nov 17, 2024
- 2 min read

I love strength training. So much so that I decided to start a muscle gaining or bulking phase.
Bulking involves diligent strength training. But for the past 3 weeks, I haven’t been to the gym or done any weightlifting whatsoever.
Three weeks ago, my son gave me a cold that made its way to my lungs. This turned into another asthma flare, just like last year.
The whole rigamarole was bad enough that I didn’t go to the gym at all.
Which sucks, because I’m barely into my bulk.
So, here’s what I’m going to do:
1. Give myself a break
There was a time in my life where I would be freaking out if I missed one workout, let alone 12 in a row. I thought that if I missed too many, I would never workout again! And I was good at beating myself up for getting off track.
It’s taken me a long time to see the forest through the trees - not working out for three weeks or two months or five years isn’t what matters. What matters is starting back up when you’re able to do so.
I’m giving myself a break from the guilt. It’s better for my mental health, and helps me with the second thing I’m going to do…
2. Just do any workout
Yesterday, when I was halfway through writing this post, I decided it was time to get back into it. I did a home workout as follows:
Warm-up: this 3-minute video
Alternating lunges: 2 set of 12 with bodyweight
Knee push-ups: 2 sets of 8
I knew I just needed to get back into strength training after some time off. And I did it! That one workout was all I needed to get back on track, and I worked out again this morning. As James Clear wrote in this post,
“Motivation is often the result of action, not the cause of it.”
3. Start slow
I’m a little disappointed that I feel sore from yesterday’s mini workout. Before this setback I had been diligently gaining strength in the gym, and now it feels like I’m back to square one.
But the soreness is a good reminder that I need to start slowly when I get back into exercise.
And I’m not at square one.
I have all the building blocks I need to get my strength back quickly. And I firmly believe that any amount of exercise is an investment in your mental and physical health, even if you end up back where you started after some time off.
I hope this helps anyone who’s struggling to get back on track. What to do you to get back to healthy habits?
Stay well friends,
Dr. Kuhnow
Way to go, Dr. K!
I also fall prey to the 'if I miss too many, I'll never work out again' fallacy- I love your quote on motivation, it is challenging me to do some much neglected physio excercises :)
Thanks for this awesome post!